tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post2651110322963977149..comments2023-05-22T04:39:39.249-08:00Comments on Alaskim | Surviving Wildlife, Wildflowers & Wild-Haired Children: I Fear I'm Raising SavagesAlaskimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02275423829064659939noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-41488582145380374262011-05-28T17:17:25.745-08:002011-05-28T17:17:25.745-08:00I think those parents are ridiculous and they'...I think those parents are ridiculous and they're setting their kid up for a whole host of other issues than the one they're trying to protect him/her from.<br /><br />Boys will be boys and girls will be girls. I truly believe there is very little to gender identity that is actually decided by social norms.Karen M. Petersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06972093977468313631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-86641960139373233352011-05-27T21:25:56.495-08:002011-05-27T21:25:56.495-08:00I just heard about this story a few days ago. I&#...I just heard about this story a few days ago. I'm with you. My boys are through and through boys. Although, I do insist on good table manners and being courteous. We talk about chivalry and nurturing, as well. But believe me, there are blocks and sticks and mud and trunks galore in our house. After all, is there any advantage to raising a gender neutral child? Are they going to be more successful and happy with their life? Because, in the end, isn't that what we want as parents?Katherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03111672135619695024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-60822790411067276862011-05-27T18:52:04.515-08:002011-05-27T18:52:04.515-08:00Don't you feel bad, Kim. I'll raise my guy...Don't you feel bad, Kim. I'll raise my guys to be straight up MEN-- jumping, wrestling bears, fishing, shooting guns, getting muddy and the like. When they calm down, maybe they can marry your gals, unless they head to the priesthood!Dianna@KennedyAdventureshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13302775757558379006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-82734116731608635152011-05-27T18:23:31.803-08:002011-05-27T18:23:31.803-08:00I just want to raise a nice boy. One day when som...I just want to raise a nice boy. One day when someone comments on how nice he is, then I'll know I did my job right :) He's a mama's boy but not a pansy! hahha Bring on the buggers and dirt under the finger nails I sayAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04300095950647954336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-364779909186176292011-05-27T10:39:28.288-08:002011-05-27T10:39:28.288-08:00If it makes you feel better, I didn't pay atte...If it makes you feel better, I didn't pay attention until you brought it up. 8-DTraci Marie Wolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08689422933875370038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-3577208772659617982011-05-27T09:49:44.186-08:002011-05-27T09:49:44.186-08:00As usual, I'm a day late and a dollar short . ...As usual, I'm a day late and a dollar short . . . I guess this story has been circulating for awhile and has already been discussed to death. Way to stay ahead of the curve, Kim!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11117084634845147874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-3561458208712150232011-05-26T23:37:04.507-08:002011-05-26T23:37:04.507-08:00I don't think the child is being hurt in anywa...I don't think the child is being hurt in anyway and most likely if it is a boy he would've never been a hunter or football player anyway so what stretch would it be? But I do think the parents are using their child to promote their views. I also think they wouldn't want society to force their kid to do boy/girl things, they shouldn't try to act as if everyone else is wrong because they are not parenting their way.Traci Marie Wolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08689422933875370038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-80624664790287652292011-05-26T20:37:45.037-08:002011-05-26T20:37:45.037-08:00I was outraged by this story when I saw it on The ...I was outraged by this story when I saw it on The View. To make him/her gender neutral is a disservice to the child. We are male and female. We are not ambiguously neutral. Ridiculous and unfair to the child.<br /><br />My son played with dolls and my daughter played with trucks. But they knew their gender.Vicki @ Grams Made Ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14830960886130900689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-2462036532195746562011-05-26T20:28:37.989-08:002011-05-26T20:28:37.989-08:00I've seen the story and to be honest, I'm ...I've seen the story and to be honest, I'm shocked that people are so wound up by it. I don't think this child is going to end up damaged over this. He/she gets to choose what wants based on whatever fuels him/her at the moment and I just don't think it's going to end up being a big deal. I love the idea that this child is being given the freedom to choose a Tonka truck to smash today and/or tutus and pearls for tea tomorrow. I love a man's man but I also love men that are sensitive, and in better touch with their feminine side too! I love girly girls AND really strong girls/women that can 'keep up with the boys'. For me this whole thing is much ado about nothing.AlaskaMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17156352464085414871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-61019560907427537052011-05-26T14:06:44.735-08:002011-05-26T14:06:44.735-08:00You are absolutely right—good manners are importan...You are absolutely right—good manners are important, especially from rambunctious little boys!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11117084634845147874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8793430820440200483.post-40967660822632026042011-05-26T13:15:47.458-08:002011-05-26T13:15:47.458-08:00I agree with the sentiment, but where I draw the l...I agree with the sentiment, but where I draw the line is when they come to school and think "it is funny" to intimidate and bully girls (and other boys) to the point where they don't want to go to school anymore. So, understand you want to express yourself but not at the expense of others!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com